By joenesgarden, 1 month and 18 days ago

How life’s guide steers your gardening path

winter Irving-3 1-10 Winter months present northern gardeners with ample opportunities to slow down and reflect, and in doing so I began to wonder how a quote I live by has guided my gardening path.

This thought was sparked by one of the blogs I try to visit regularly.  At first glance you might think BIKE WITH JACKIE is about bicycling, but it's not.  Jackie writes about finding inner strength and turning obstacles into opportunities.  In a recent post, Quotes to live by, she asked readers to list a favorite quote they refer to when times or events get tough.  Her favorite , by Margaret Thatcher, inspired Jackie to write a list of good, uplifting thoughts to consider when needing a self-confidence boost – but you'll have to visit BIKE WITH JACKIE to read these.

I had no problem coming up with a quote in response to Jackie's request.  It's from one of my favorite writers, Anna Quindlen.  In her book, Black and Blue Quindlen writes, «The life you have led doesn't need to be the only life you have.»  I read this book years ago, but this one line hit home so deeply with me that I have it written in an easily referred to place … and I do refer to it often.  This quote has helped guide me through so many life events.  It certainly pertains to my life-long desire to immerse myself in learning about plants and gardening, and most recently helped me decide to pursue certification in landscape design. Translation: your current trade doesn't need to be your only trade.

Extending this line of thinking towards more tangible, daily garden-related affairs, I realized just how often I apply the mantra 'If it doesn't work, FIX IT!' which, in essence, is the same message as Quindlen's above. Here's some examples:

The lawn you have need not be made only of grass.  When grass would not grow at in more shady areas of the lawn, but moss did, guess which won.  The variety of mosses that have replaced previously seeded grass is much more interesting and much less labor intensive than lawn grass could ever be.

If deer like the plants you've planted, plant those the deer don't like.  I refuse to look at munched, unattractive shrubbery and plants, and can't come up with the bucks to fence deer out completely.  So where they roam, I plant things they don't particularly like – foxglove, lamb's ear, anemone, peony, Siberian iris, thyme, low-growing sedum, astilbe, campanula, sage, lady's mantle, globe thistle, and narcissus to name a few.  Then I give winter protection to any evergreens I want to keep unmunched.  Yes, deer might nibble a little on some of these unprotected plants in early spring, but this I can live with.

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The vegetable garden need not be the only place tomato or pepper, or lettuce plants grow.  When the fenced in vegetable beds no longer offered ample growing space, containers filled in.  When the vole population grew incrementally after a mild winter and voraciously ate the roots of nearly everything planted in the vegetable beds, I planted veggies in large plastic pots sunk into the soil.  When we constructed a fenced in area elsewhere, I interspersed edibles with perennials to further thwart the voles.

Of course, this line of thought also explains why a pink dogwood tree had two homes before I finally opted to leave it planted in its current location.  Why an Endless Summer hydrangea spent a full summer potted on the deck and a full winter healed into a fallow veggie garden bed, before it found a permanent home next to a lace-cap cousin.  Why a globe-shaped boxwood became the center focus of a circular stone-walled planting bed after its twin succumbed to winter and could no longer balance the other side of the steps where the pair originally resided.  Why I rearrange so many perennials in the spring and fall to try and fix what ever it was about their current location that just didn't make it.

I know, as a gardener, I am not alone in these actions, but other gardeners must use other guiding quotes.  So what's your quote?  What mantra or words of wisdom guide your life, and how do your gardens reflect its message?

By joenesgarden, 1 month and 20 days ago

Lines, and offsets and symbols, Oh My!

I've been following the yellow brick road through the AutoSketch forest, where apple tossing tree symbols and a wicked witch of the west (the instructions, not my instructor), cackling 'You must follow these directions exactly, my little pretty!' tried to thwart my progress to the Emerald City (completing the AutoSketch training module) and my meeting with the Wizard (completing the drawings for Lesson 3 of my landscape design course).  The good witch, Glinda, was right.  Ruby slippers did not let me down.  Yes, I had a slight setback – the witch's flying monkeys swooped down and threw a slight hitch into my computer when I was installing the pdf writer necessary for converting the skf files of AutoSketch to pdf files.  But my trusty traveling companions– the Scarecrow, the Tin Man, that lovable Cowardly Lion, and of course Toto (I'll leave my family members to guess who is who) – came to my rescue and let me be so I had time to complete lesson 3 before the hourglass ran out.  And in spite of the witch's roadblocks, and the Professor/Wizard's hot air balloon releasing into the stratosphere unexpectedly early, my ruby slippers brought that little bit of magic that allowed me to find my way back to Kansas … which, in my case, involved turning the page to lesson 4.

By now … if you are still reading and not aware of my journey to complete a landscape design course … I must have you completely confused, especially if you are not a Wizard of Oz aficionado.  So, in honor of the Tin Man, here's my story.  A while back while I was chopping that tree … no wait, I was trudging my way through the steps needed for learning all the idiosyncrasies of AutoSketch, a computer aided drafting program suitable for landscape design … a sudden rainstorm hit that rusted me right here, axe in hand.  Sorry, I digress again.  While working my way through the ins and outs of creating single lines and polylines, circular and elliptical arcs, circles and ellipses and polygons; and using marker points, offsets, and trim and snap tools, the holidays hit.  I was frozen in time, part way through my lessons on how to apply lengths and angles to each drawing tool.  And in spite of my tuck-tuck here, snip-snip there, attempts to clean up my desk and clear my time to continue my lessons, none of my preening worked until January came along.  Finally freed from my rusted stance, the witch's soldiers and evil deeds, and my lack of courage, I was able to move forward and continue on my journey.  I collected the brainpower, the heart, and the fortitude to complete the AutoSketch tutorial.  I've returned back to the other side of the rainbow to work on the rest of my lessons.

A friend who previously took the Anna Gresham Landscape Design course said working her way through some of the lessons felt like walking through concrete.  I must agree, but getting to the other side of the concrete jungle is a worthy effort.  Perhaps if I were a bit younger, say about 30 years, my brain would more easily digest what's needed to master a CAD program.  Or maybe I'd be more likely to learn it faster if I could concentrate only on this, rather than having to work and handle all my other adult responsibilities.

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Don't laugh, these are the end products of all my drudgery … drawing a square, a circle, a circle in a square, 3 triangles (one made of a bunch of concentric lines), an ellipse, and some more involved forms.  For each I had to learn, practice, and master enough of the CAD program to complete these exact renderings, and trust me, this is not an easy process for a busy, sometimes overloaded, aging brain.  My civil engineer son will definitely roll his eyes if he reads this post!

But enough.  What's done is done.  The Wicked Witch has melted  - her lovely wickedness stopped by a seemingly simple splash of water.  I've completed the Epithet lesson, and now the first Autosketch lesson.  The next step of my journey involves creating a design brief questionnaire that will allow me to note down all the aspects of a property I might be asked to design.  The standard information includes the clients name, number in their family, expected uses of their yard and gardens, who does the maintenance and how much gardening work they might actually do, and various notes regarding the specifics of the area to be reworked and how the clients want to use their landscape.  I'm in the process of compiling my own questionnaire now.  Have any ideas?  If someone were to come into your garden, what would you want them to know about you, or your expectations, so they could design the outdoor area of your dreams … or at least a spot that fits your budget?

By joenesgarden, 1 month and 24 days ago

January’s frozen foliage

A view of some foliage from my snow-covered gardens reveals some still green herbs frozen in time ( I'd show a photo of thyme here, but it's all under snow).  An earlier fast freeze caught both my Golden Edged sage and Hidcote lavender with some color still in their leaves.  Look closely … very closely.  You'll see it.  Northern gardeners learn to take pleasure in the slightest hint of green during our white and grey winters.  Usually the  sage leaves turn brown and fall, so it's fun to seen them fast-frozen, color and all.  I doubt this anomaly will last long – the temperatures in Connecticut might reach 40 degrees today.  But the lavender will likely hold it's grey-green foliage until closer to spring, when I'll cut back it's tired stalks to allow fresh new growth.

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This is my first participation in Foliage Follow-up, the brainchild of Pam, who gardens and blogs from Austin, Texas.  She has a larger choice of subjects to photograph for Foliage Follow-up, which you can see at  Digging.  Sigh … 62 days till Spring.

By joenesgarden, 1 month and 25 days ago

January’s velvety violets

violet-5 1-14-10During warmer months my Connecticut gardens provide a wide variety of blossoms.  Not so in January, when windowsill-grown African violets take center stage.

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Though these tiny wonders offer few blossoms, I don't mind … their limited quantity insures greater focus on each.  Makes me wonder why I don't have more.

Want to read an amusing African violet post ?  Visit Is Petting Your African Violet a Good Idea?

Enjoy the photos and flowers in gardens elsewhere by visiting all the linked garden blogs at May Dreams Gardens, where Carol posts her Garden Blogger's Bloom Day photos and offers others a venue to do the same. 

By joenesgarden, 1 month and 26 days ago

Reflections supplant garden ruminations

When faced with human tragedy that is so harsh and so severe as that currently happening in Haiti, any thoughts on soils, weather, deer, or seeds are swiftly relegated to the shallow and immaterial shelf. This morning, I pause to try to digest the heartrending events that have happened to and will continue to plague the residents of our island neighbor to the South.

Television images portray overwhelming destruction, yet I have my home.

The rubble has caused massive injuries, yet I have my health.

Haitians have lost an unfathomable number of loved ones, yet my family is safe.

The earthquake survivors need water and food, while my ability to drink and seek sustenance is just a room away.

Port au Prince faces civil turmoil and grievous human need, while my biggest current obstacle is what to write in my next blog.

I have no answers, I have no remedies … yet I have the means to donate. 

Americares:  http://www.americares.org/

Doctors Without Borders: http://www.doctorswithoutborders.org/

Other Haiti donation links from NBCConnecticut: http://www.nbcconnecticut.com/news/Help-Haiti-Victims-81337767.html

My own life-tragedies seem inconsequential in light of the desolation caused by the earthquake in Haiti.

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